After spending way more time than I should trying to get a new look for my blog I decided to keep the pink theme afterall. Most of the templates I liked said I couldn't change them in anyway and being the good law-abiding citizen I am I decided against it. Thanks Katie for you help!

And...Thanks to everyone for your kind words over the last week. It has meant so much and even though you are all strangers it has made this difficult time easier. ((((hugs))))