Call it jinxing myself or call it fate. I would probably call it a God Thing. The aforementioned guy I met seems to have a dark spot on his record. More specifically he deals drugs. Maybe I am just quirky and not "hip" but that is not the type of person I see myself dating. From what I understand his parents have a grow-op. Nice. He deals it and smokes it himself. I have strong opinions about few things and drugs is one of them. So scratch Nice Guy at Party.
Now what is up with sore nipples? I am not pregnant or PMS'ing but my nipples hurt.
Now what is up with sore nipples? I am not pregnant or PMS'ing but my nipples hurt.
posted by BarbaraMG at Saturday, September 10, 2005
8 Comments:
Wow, it's a good thing you found out now before you got involved with him.
As for the whole Nipple thing, I have no idea.
First Date....
Girl: So, what do you do for a living?
Guy: Well, my parents have their own business and I do quite well for myself running their sales department.
Girl:Oh wow that sounds really great. What's the business?
Guy: Weed........... hey, where are you going?..... Come back.... Stop running.
What a LOSER, thank goodness you found out when you did. I'd agree that it was a God thing that kept you from getting a few months into a relationship before finding out about that little fact.
As for the Nipple thing... it happens to me sometimes too, no clue why. Just another JOY of being a woman I guess.
LOL! Funny thing is it sounds as if he does do very well for himself. He goes on all sorts of trips and owns a couple of cars.
Jinx? Fate? Call it a Guardian Angel! I echo everyone else's sentiments that it's a damn good thing you found out now about his profession, rather than later. Can you imagine your heartache then? Someone up there is watching out for you on this one. Chalk it up for what it is - you dodged a bullet, so thank your stars.
I get the nipple thing too -- usually starts 10 days before my period actually starts. Bottom line though, regardless of whether it's associated with PMS, it's usually hormonal.
If it continues to be a problem, consider having a reproductive endocrinologist (even a "PMS" Specialist Gyno) test all your hormone levels - it's very eye-opening. I did this about 10 yrs ago, after experiencing not only the weird nipple symptoms, but several other things I - or any of the doctors I saw up until then -- couldn't explain (constant irritability, anxiety, depression, insomnia, anger, random crying spells, dry skin, etc). The last doc in a long line of docs I saw for this took one look at me - I started crying from frustration -- and then he automatically handed me a prescrip for Prozac vs. doing any tests.
Anyway... found this PMS specialist doc, who referred me to the reproductive endocrine guy, who tested the right things. Each and every problem I had was attributed to too much of a given hormone in my system, as the tests showed (they tested the thyroid hormones, adrenal hormones, pituitary hormones, you name it, they tested it and found each gland was working overtime putting too much in my system). It was very enlightening. (I tell any woman about this b/c back then, before I learned about this, I had no clue that such tests existed. I cannot tell you how happy I was that someone could finally figure out what was going on with me.) Probably more than you wanted to know, but I thought I'd pass it along anyway.
All I can say is what the others have alredy said. Thank god you found out. and as in the movie Forrest Gump "Run Forrst run"
It could have been worse. He could have been a crack dealer!
I swear all the good guys out there are either married, gay, or pot dealers. Sheesh.
Keep your chin up! Mr. Right will come along one day and he won't be a drug dealer or a loser of any kind.
About the nipple thing, try taking some calcium supplements if you arent' already. I don't know why, but it always helps me.
Love to you, love!
Run! lol - glad you got yourself out of that guy's clutches! That's not what you want to get yourself mixed up in!
There is a sad lack of decent men out there...
geez, louise.
i found myself attracting one of those years ago, too.
phew. glad you escaped it!
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